How To Be Rich
Say “NO” In Order To Say “YES”
Day 1: Read I Timothy 6:6. Hey rich person. Yes you! How is being rich working for you? This week Paul tells us that godliness with contentment is great gain…is itself great wealth. Gain to us often means newer, bigger, upgrade, latest model, more square footage, extra stuff and extra savings. Paul had a different view. He says if you want great gain or great wealth, learn to be content. Contentment is more valuable than the stuff we acquire. What areas of your life cause you to feel trapped into comparison and temptation? When do you struggle with contentment? Often times, your spouse or close friend has a different struggle in this area. In a moment of honest reflection, why do you think discontentment is a struggle for you?
Day 2: Read I Corinthians 10:23-24. To truly be rich we will have to learn to say, “no” to ourselves. In the 1980s, Nancy Reagan coined the slogan “Just say NO” empowering children to stand against drugs. The idea was to say “no” to something that might bring temporary enjoyment and pleasure in order to say “yes” to something better and longer lasting. The same is true when it comes to generosity. There will be times that we will have to say “no” to ourselves. “No” to our children. “No” to more stuff. “No” to more status. “No” to more security. In order to say “yes” to God resulting in a lifestyle of generosity which leads to great gain. Keep this slogan in the back of your mind today. Choose to intentionally say “no" to yourself when you have the resources to say “yes.” This is likely not an issue of right or wrong but a decision to deny yourself in order to teach yourself to be content and to honor God.
Day 3: It seems like the more we have the less we should want. But that is not how appetites work. Think about the stage of life in which you were most content. Cory discussed an early time in his marriage when he and Amy were very content when outwardly they possessed very little. Most likely, we can all recall a time when we experienced contentment even though we lived simply. Read I Timothy 6:7-8. Who in your life demonstrates gratitude and contentment? What do you admire about them? Thank God for them. Consider contacting them today and ask them how they have developed contentment.
Day 4: Read Romans 12:1-2, 9-21. We see and hear advertisements daily. How can we find the power to say “no” when we have the resources to say “yes?” The answer is in a word: AWARENESS. Back in the day, people bought mostly based on need. Today, we buy mostly based on want. Our want is magnified by awareness. If I was not aware of the new version, the latest upgrade, etc. I would not want it. Saying “no” to self and “yes" to being rich involves awareness. Awareness can fuel our discontentment out of a desire for more. Or it can propel us toward increased levels of generosity as we become aware of needs that really matter. Where can you avoid unnecessarily exposing yourself to environments that make you discontent? Where can you start exposing yourself to needs, causes and opportunities that cultivate contentment and generosity? Take a step to cultivate awareness towards causes that truly matter and make a difference. Here are some local opportunities:
LSCC partnership ministries: Hillcrest, Rachel House, If Not for Grace, Lullaby of Hope, lscckc.org/serve-partnerships
Pro Deo After School Program. Support and accountability for teens grades 9-12. prodeoyouthcenter.org
Rebuild Together. Help elderly stay in their homes by doing repairs.
One Good Meal. Provide hot meals to seniors. onegoodmeal.org
Veteran’s Community Project. Help build tiny homes for homeless vets. Contact Anna Peterson or 573-247-9623.
Serve Our City. Deliver Thanksgiving meals to community. lscckc.org/serveourcity
Neighborhoods. See a practical need in your neighborhood. Contact your HOA to see how your family could serve.
Prepare to respond to a need. Consider carrying $20 cash with you ready to respond and bless.
Pay it forward. Pay for someone’s meal.
Give yourself space to help, bless, and respond to live generously.
Or you may already know of a need; go make a difference.
Day 5: Read I Timothy 6:9-10. Being good at being rich is not just a matter of deciding what to do with your money, it also includes a healthy understanding of what your money is doing with you or to you. Money has an effect on its owners. Many people who have money spend a lot of time looking for ways not to lose it or to accumulate more of it. The key is to possess money without it possessing you. Greed must be controlled or pulled at its roots. Consider times you wanted something out of your reach. What sacrifices did you have to make? Did it require sacrificing time with family, integrity, unhealthy work habits, missed opportunities? Was the sacrifice worth your desired outcome? Meditate on I Timothy 6:6. What learning do you take from this life experience?