Day 1: Mark 1:11, And a voice came from heaven: “You are my Son, whom I love; with you I am well pleased.” God’s voice beamed down from heaven just as Jesus was being baptized by John in the Jordan River. Jesus had yet to perform any miracles, but still the Father said He was pleased with his Son. Do you believe the same principle applies to you? Is God pleased with you? God doesn’t love you less when you go astray, and he doesn’t love you more when you’re “good.” Read Ephesians 2:10 and Zephaniah 3:17 and remind yourself of how God sees you today. If He sees you this way, how does he see your co-worker, family member, classmate, etc.?
Day 2: God made you with a purpose. In all honesty, do you believe that you are a unique, hand-crafted God design? We tend to look at others – see their strengths and characteristics, and wish we were more like them. Theodore Roosevelt once said, “Comparison is the thief of joy.” Have you experienced that thief? God has already put his stamp of approval on you – your height, your freckles, your talents, your laugh, everything. Read these passages. What is God saying to you about the specialness that is you? How does this change how you view your schedule or plans for today? Read Psalm 139:13-14, Isaiah 64:8, Jeremiah 1:4-8, Matthew 10:29-31.
Day 3: This past Sunday was Mother’s Day, and next month we celebrate Father’s Day. Parents of younger children, let’s continue to raise successful, achieving children. But in the same token, let’s not compare our children to other’s children wishing for them to be smarter, faster, wiser when they are just as God made them. And for those of you who are parents of adult children, what does it look like to love and to show respect to your kids? Likewise, children, God made your mom and dad for a purpose. Honor them and thank them. Pray for them. Show grace and understanding. Whether parents or children, or both, reflect on the last time you’ve lost patience and lacked grace. Read John 13:33-34 and practice it in your family relationships.
Day 4: Where is your identity coming from? To what am I looking to reaffirm that I am ok, or even who I am? That is an easily glossed over, deep question. When I get a new car is there something in me that feels better when I sit at a stoplight? Does my significance go up when I get a promotion or raise at work? What is happening in me at a heart level when I see a specific attitude or behavior that needs to be transformed by God? Read Matthew 6:19-24. Who or what is your master outside of God? What comes into your mind? Now consider this quote from Lysa TerKeurst, “Jesus doesn’t participate in the rat race. He’s into the slower rhythms of life, like abiding, delighting, and dwelling—all words that require us to trust Him with our place and our pace. Words used to describe us being with Him.” (Uninvited: Living Loved When You Feel Less Than, Left Out, and Lonely). Notice where you get your identity today. How can you affirm yourself and in others?
Day 5: Jesus teaches us to hold admiration for others. Do you see others who you hold in high regard? Admire them, learn from them, celebrate them, but you be you! Admire, love and celebrate all that you are in God’s eyes. Romans 8, “Nothing can separate you from God.” When it comes to God delighting over you, you didn’t earn it, you just are. Why? Because you are His son or daughter. He cannot love you more – and he will never love you less. He loves you and needs you to be you, in keeping with how He made you and why you are here. Pray today for a greater sense of self and acknowledge who you are in God’s eyes. Embrace love and acceptance knowing your heavenly Father is always shining favor on your life.